One might argue that Jesse James being centered on doing what makes himself happy is what destroyed his marriage to Sandra Bullock. But in an interview with Good Morning America, he says he’s done enough worrying about Sandra and now needs to get back to what he does best – turn his attention to himself.

He says:

“I can’t worry about her anymore … I think I’ve spent a good chunk of the last five or six years worrying only about her and what she thinks and what I should do and, like, you know, controlling all my movements and everything else. I think it’s time to worry about Jesse and making sure Jesse’s happy.”

It’s also time to stop referring to yourself in the third person. People don’t do that in real life.

James plans to marry his current beau, Kat Von D, this year.